Thursday, December 4, 2008

A nice Person

Set priorities in your Life,. You have your own responsibilities. Dropping everything to help a person who's not truly in need is beyond the call of duty. They are just relying onto you. Let them be responsible for themselves.

Making a plan for example Plan A is the list for the people you can turn to in times of need. They deserve your help. Plan B is the list for those wo are undependable when it comes to helping you. If they ask for help , you should feel free to turn them down gently.

Instead help others to help themselves for example if friends cant afford to buy groceries don't keep giving him money. Instead help him find a job. That will make him more independent and more satisfying for both of you.

8 comments:

Be your self by your self said...

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adette said...

hi maus! ang taba ko noh..eheheh! lalo na ngayon,napabayaan sa kitchen. tama ka, dpat hindi maging hand me down ang isang tao...i experienced that before sa isang relative....mahirap kung bigay lagi ng money...

Dhemz said...

love this entry sistah...heeheh! very inspirational!

Weng F. said...

totoo yon, if yu keep on giving money because yu feel pity. You did not help him at all, you help him to become laz instead.

Youngest said...

good info my friend....

Youngest said...

i agree! but in some ways, there are some things that you just can't change...wish i could. (sad)

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Maria said...

100% Absolutely agree with you friend. We should teach them to become independent. “Teach them on how to catch the fish“. One of the best known is the one quoted:" Give a man a fish; feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish; feed him for a lifetime", which has a wonderful analogy with the modern world of management today. Muah!